The first time I heard about a "bucket list", I was around 14 years old. A film called
A Walk to Remember had been released. It featured this girl who had been diagnosed with cancer and her desire to do all the things on her list before she died. (I'm not going to reveal the end, so you'll just have to watch it).
Not long after, I typed up my first bucket list and hung it on my bedroom door. It didn't have that much on it, but a few on the things still remain on my current list. It stayed there for many years and slowly I started to tick a few of the boxes.
Unfortunately the original list was lost, but I managed to remember most of it and have added many more dreams over the years. Until now, mine has been a word document saved on my computer.
A bucket list is a list of stuff you'd like to do. It's not like the ordinary
to-do lists people make at the beginning of the week to feverishly try to balance work and spare time. No a bucket list is a list of dreams, activities and adventures you would like to do some time before you die.
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| December 2012: Licence - Though this is a fairly new dream, a few years back I suddenly wanted to get my motorcycle licence. Still have to buy a bike, but I'll get to that one day. |
So why should you have one? Well first of all, it's important to have a dream. A goal. Something to aim for. It doesn't have to be huge like becoming the President of a country. It could be something as small as making you grandma smile every Saturday by bringing her flowers. Point is that we all need to embrace that inner child in us. That "Peter-Pan" stage of our lives where everything is possible if you only believe.
You can go about it in many different ways. You can make a scrapbook with recycled paper, use an website to manage your list or fill a wall with colourful post-its. Point is you need to find a way that suits you. It's no point me telling you what is the
right way, cause there ain't one. What I will do however, is tell you how I went about it.
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| London New Years Eve 2012-13 : When I was growing up, I used to watch the telly on New Years and see the celebrations from all over the world. London, Sydney and New York was always my favourites. So that's how my childhood dream ended up on my list. |
Brainstorming and thinking makes it easier to know what you want, really want, and that would make you truly happy might not always be an easy thing know. Take some time to do this, like an hour or two. Go to a place where you can relax, breathe and think. For me this is the beach on a sunny day. Listening to the waves relaxes me immensely.
Draft it on a piece of paper (or on your computer). Just write, or draw, whatever comes into mind. Remember, this is
your list. Not your dads or your best mates', it's yours. The stuff you put on this list might seem silly to others, even borderline rude, but to you it means something. That's all that matters.
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| I bought this leather bound notebook with high quality paper. |
The final version should be something you've put some thought into. Like I said at the beginning, this is not the average weekly to-do list which has got the groceries on it. This a list of life. Having said that, nothing is set in stone. You can add or change your list. Only rule is that it's your list.
My way of doing it is having two pages for each goal. On the left page there will be a headline with the dream and pictures from it. Then on the right side I'll write about it, what happened, where I did it and how it was.
By spending some time with it, you make it special. It's not just another piece of paper to go next to the pile of bills or in that folder on your computer where you save all the mixed documents. Nurture it. It's your new mantra. Your new Bible if you want to call it that. It's a reminder about your dreams, about your goals. So if, and you probably will at some point, feel a bit lost in your life you can look at your bucket list. You've done the hardest part, identifying your dreams. All you have to now is make them happen.
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| Put your personal touch to it |
Now, some people might say that you should only put stuff that realistically can happen on there or that
they think you're capable of. I think you shouldn't. My personal opinion is that you should write your dreams down, regardless how unrealistic they may seem. I put "Present at a TED talk". Now, I'll admit that I'm not any close at the moment in receiving an invite to speak at an TED event, but who's to say it won't happen in 30 years from now? Point is, don't limit yourself. It's your dreams.
William Arthur Ward once said
“If you can imagine it, you can achieve it; if you can dream it, you can become it.”
Here's my bucket list (in no particular order)
My bucket list
Travel
Live in a different country- V
Travel by myself - V
Travel to Oxford - V
Travel to Venice (Italy)
Travel to Australia
See the Sydney Opera House
Celebrate New Years in London - V
Celebrate New Years in Sydney
Celebrate New Years in New York
Do Route 66 (USA) on a motorbike
Travel to Scotland
Travel to all seven continents
Europe - V
Asia
Oceania/Australia
Africa
North America
South America
Antarctica
Interrail - Travel Europe by train
Travel to the end of the world - V
Travel to the north of Norway and see the Northern lights
Travel to Svalbard (Norway) and see polar bears
See the Pyramids of Giza
Travel in a hot air balloon
Experience weightlessness
Swim in every ocean
Pacific Ocean - V
Atlantic Ocean - V
Indian Ocean
Southern Ocean
Arctic Ocean
Go to the airport and pick a random flight and go there
See the Eiffel Tower
Travel to the North Pole
Travel to the South Pole
Fly a plane
See an active volcano (active as lava)
Have a pint at the Oktoberfest in Munich
Travel to Pompeii (Italy) and see the stone people - V
Visit the Amazon Rainforest
Cross a country by foot/bike
Attend the Mardi Gras in Sydney
Ride the cable cars up the hills of San Francisco (US)
Celebrate St. Patrick’s in Ireland
Work/education
Get a degree from university - V
Get a degree or certificate from University of Oxford
Work as a bartender
Get a job I love
Work for Travel Channel OR National Geographic
Work with kids - V
Volunteer for an orphanage
Find a job I’m completely happy in
Work as a teacher
Be a jury member
Study philosophy and/or psychology
Open a cafè in the countryside
Volunteer for a charity - V
Run my own business - V
Random
Sleep under the star one night
Learn conversational Spanish
Learn a Sign Language
Learn to play the piano
Be two places at once - V
Find a cure for my animal allergies - V
Get a motorcycle licence - V
Improve my handwriting and write more letters/postcards - V
Pet a kangaroo
Get a book published
Drive a Ferrari
Do a skydive
Spend a few weeks in a buddhist temple
Run a marathon
Get over my fear of heights - V
Get a tattoo - V
Read every book I own
Have over 500 books in my own library
Watch the sunrise on the beach
Hitch-hike
Get six pack abs
Have a “slow-motion-moment-with-family/friends-at-the-airport”
Make a difference to in someones life
Do karaoke for one whole night in a bar/pub/club
Take a photo, every day for a year
Run a club/hotel in Greece
Send at least ten messages in bottles - V
Ride a camel
Own my own house
Go zorbing
Be on TV - V
Take dance lessons
Salsa
Ballroom
Samba
Hip-hop
Go to a P!nk concert
Learn to juggle
Attend the Olympics somewhere
Get an article published in a newspaper - V
Meet a Royal
Attend an art class and learn how to paint
Do yoga (for a minimum of 6 months, twice a week)
Learn archery
Swim with dolphins
Climb one of the World Seven Summits
Donate blood
Fall in love
Have kids
Fire a gun
Go on a safari
Wear a kilt
Eat insects
Write my memoirs
Have my own “Hallmark-perfect-Christmas”
Milk a cow
Present at a TED Talk
Find my Narnia in the back of a wardrobe
Now it's your turn, dream, write and do it!
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